I turn 50 this month. A half a century old. Ho-lee schnikies. What the hell happened? Wasn’t I just 20? I need some time to let this marinate.
Haha, jk. To be honest I’ve been thinking about this birthday for a while now. In fact, I recently took a moment to reflect on all of my past successes and failures, hits and misses and loves and loses, and I came to realize that I learned some pretty solid life lessons along the way. I thought I'd share them with you here on the blog. Some of these may sound cliché, and that's because they are. Others, not so much.
50 Life Lessons Learned Over 50 Years
13. You know that thing you keep putting off? Do it.
14. You are not your job; you are not your mom; you are not your kids. You are perfectly imperfect you.
15. Be vain, but not conceited. Know the difference.
16. Take pride in yourself and all you’ve accomplished--it's kind of a big deal.
17. Learn one new thing every day. For example, TIL that I can't log in to the CT DSS website using the Chrome browser. BAM!
18. Be kind to people, especially the ones who aren’t very kind themselves. They are the ones who need it most.
19. Not everyone wants to see you succeed. Some will even go out of their way to see you fail.
20. Live by the golden rule.
21. Have a chat with an old timer. They have so much wisdom to share.
22. You can’t please everyone, so stop trying.
23. Know your strengths and your weaknesses. Focus on the strengths, forget about the weaknesses.
24. Appreciate the things you normally take for granted.
25. Give back. Even if it’s donating your tag sale leftovers, or handing a dollar bill over to someone less fortunate, do it--it’ll make you feel good.
26. Be gracious. Always say please and thank you. Smile at strangers. (See #20)
27. Make it a point to go out of your way for someone. Help a neighbor or a friend, even if it’s anonymously.
28. Enjoy being by yourself, and your “alone time”.
29. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Do what you can. Believe me, it’s good enough.
30. Stand for something you truly believe in.
31. Love unconditionally.
32. Do not fear getting hurt. You can’t grow, if you don’t hurt.
33. Had someone do something nice for you? Pay it forward.
34. Stop worrying what other people think. Honestly, who gives a shit?
35. Own a pet; this way you’ll always have a BFFL. (see #31)
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36. Eleanor Roosevelt said, "do something everyday that scares you". I think that's a bit much. But definitely, do something that scares you at least once in a while...the feeling is kind of invigorating!
37. Accomplish at least 3 things on your bucket list.
38. Stop complaining, whining and nagging. It’s wasted energy. Who’s listening, anyway?
39. Be passionate--whether it’s about a cause, your kids, your profession--do it with passion.
40. Don’t let the fear of failure stop you from doing something new and exciting. (See #36)
41. Everything in moderation. Life is not about “living on the edge” or “going for the gusto”; it’s all about ebbs and flows.
42. Keep a journal. Writing down your feelings, thoughts, dreams and ideas will make you feel more self aware.
43. Be mindful of your surroundings. Watch the sunrise; listen to the wind blow; stare at the stars. Beauty is everywhere.
44. Fall in love, at least twice.
45. Live selflessly. Try to limit the number of times you say “I” “me” and “mine” in a conversation. It’s really not all about you.
46. Take time to center yourself and decompress at least once a day. Put on some new age-y music, light some candles and close your eyes for 15 minutes and just breathe. (See #28)
47. Stop depriving yourself. Eat the damn ice cream. It won’t kill you. It won’t even take 2 minutes off your life. Promise.
48. Think positive. Negativity will kill you faster than that ice cream.
49. Pray. Sometimes you just have to hand it over to Him, and ask for guidance.
50. Realize you cannot control everything or everyone. But you can control yourself, and that’s even better.
Oh yeah, one last thing:
What life lessons speak to you most? What have YOU learned over the years? Let me know in the comments below :)
8/8/2017 11:22:49 pm
These are fantastic! I luckily have learned a few of them already and I totally agree. Especially not everyone is going to like you and that is perfectly okay. Too many friends just means that you are spread more thin and have less time for those that really love you and care about you.
8/15/2017 07:10:41 pm
Happy belated birthday! I love these types of posts. I always learn something new :) I can agree with you on so many of these!
8/15/2017 08:33:04 pm
I'm such a firm believer of "everything happens for a reason."
8/15/2017 11:53:51 pm
Great post, I just made a version for my 30th birthday. My favorite was "think positive" as I couldn't agree more. Negative thinking almost always works, never a good idea!
8/17/2017 12:23:25 am
Wow! These are great life lessons. Thank you for sharing. Reading this makes me reflect on my own 40 years.
8/17/2017 05:09:32 pm
So many awesome pieces of advice! I love how so much of your list comes down to kindness (to yourself and others :). Today someone asked me how old I was, and I completely, subconsciously said "I'm 28." After walking away, I realized, what did I just say? I'm actually 38!!!!
8/19/2017 04:35:42 pm
Thanks everybody! It literally took 15 minutes to come up with this list; a lot longer to make it look pretty. And yes, EAT THE ICE CREAM! I don't want to be the only one :)
Love love love this! Eat the damn ice cream, YES! That was me last night. I was like...screw it. I have my period, I'm tired and hangry- I'm gonna have me some ice cream. I love reading these posts from people who are older and wiser than I am! I need to do number 46 more often. Meditation is something that has helped me so much when I make time to do it.
9/23/2017 12:38:46 am
10/18/2017 06:16:46 pm
Love this bits of wisdom. Life lesson I have learned the hard way: go for life experiences that contribute to your growth rather than chasing material things. I have never been much of a shopper anyway. But, when I had to move to the other side of the world and got rid about 90% of my material belonging, I was amazed (and saddened) at how much time and money had been wasted on those. It made me more conscious now about focusing on experiences.
10/18/2017 09:26:02 pm
I love your humor in this! These are all great life lessons to take away with us
12/12/2020 08:13:02 am
Thanks for posting this
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